How Do You Give Your Kids Millions... Without Giving Them Control at 18?

Imagine you want to give your children millions of dollars BUT, you don’t want them to receive it all at 18.

A lot of parents and grandparents want the same thing:

“I’d like to move wealth out of my estate for tax reasons…

but I do not want my kids getting full control of it right away.”

If you give money to them outright, they control it.

If you give money to a typical trust, it often doesn’t qualify for the annual gift tax exclusion, because the beneficiary can’t immediately access the money.

So how do you:

• Reduce your taxable estate each year

• Use the annual exclusion

• And still keep control over when your kids actually get the money?

One common answer is a trust that uses something called a “Crummey withdrawal power.”

Here’s how it works:

• Every time you contribute money to the trust, the beneficiary has a short window (often 30 days) where they’re allowed to withdraw that contribution.

• In reality, almost nobody does.

• The window closes, the money stays in the trust, and it’s invested and managed under the rules you set (ages, milestones, trustee discretion, etc.).

That small feature changes the tax treatment so those contributions can qualify for the annual gift tax exclusion.

This lets you move money into the trust each year without using your lifetime gift & estate exemption (as long as amounts and other requirements are met).

Now your kids/grandkids can benefit from the money and the compounding, but they don’t automatically get a giant check the day they become a legal adult.

It’s one of those areas where a relatively small legal mechanism can make a big difference in how, when, and to whom your wealth actually passes.

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